argh, i hate when i forget to ask important questions and end up having to send food back. this happens most often if i'm at a new place, or especially if i'm at an "old" place that i just haven't visited for awhile. the latter is where i ate tonight. i ordered a plate of fusilli pasta with marinara sauce, and then mentally smacked myself in the forehead when the server brought it to me–there was parmesan cheese dusted aaaaall over everything. i hate feeling like i'm wasting an entire plate of food! and i get so mad at myself for forgetting to ask about things like that. ugh. she was extremely nice about the whole thing, but i felt like a jerk.